They left without the photographer.
Two hours later, as they lay on the yacht’s sun deck in
the warm tropical air, they heard the roar of twin diesels. Looking up, there in the bow-sprit chair of a
racing marlin boat was the photographer, Paul Barnett, snapping photos from a
long telescopic lens. James Bond with a
camera.
The downside of unrealistic optimism is that you are out
of touch, but the upside is that your outlook might trigger a self-fulfilling
prophecy. Steve
Jobs was said to have been surrounded by a “reality distortion field,” in that
he would believe in possibilities even when others saw them as
unthinkable. Of course, once Steve
believed, then others would too – making his vision more likely to come true.
The bride was being consoled by her best friend, who was
hoping to keep the makeup from liquefying.
The yacht was perfect, of course, and most of the bridesmaids were there
as planned. How dreamy – except now no
pictures. Well, the bride would make
sure that the photographer never got another high-profile job. And, to think, all the best families had
raved about what a genius he is.
Two hours later, as they lay on the yacht’s sun deck in
the warm tropical air, they heard the roar of twin diesels. Looking up, there in the bow-sprit chair of a
racing marlin boat was the photographer, Paul Barnett, snapping photos from a
long telescopic lens. James Bond with a
camera.
But of course! You
don’t photograph the wedding party on the yacht itself; too close quarters. You
shoot from a separate boat! What a genius.
Let me tell you, the story from my brother Paul’s
perspective sounds a lot different: A
desperate realization that you were told the wrong time; a frantic cab ride to
the marina, only to see the yacht heading to sea; a search for a fast boat; a
payoff to a nefarious badguy; the last-second idea to shoot from the bow-sprit
chair strapped in like a marlin fisherman.
And then, of course, the usual self-assured act later on, as if to say
“all part of the plan.”
Some people have a way of making things go right, no
matter how badly they seem to be going wrong.
Why do winners seem to just keep winning?
Social scientists tell us that winners keep winning for
several reasons. First off, maybe they
are just better. But quality aside, we
know that those with a reputation for past success tend to get disproportionate
credit for future wins – the so-called “Matthew effect” described by the
sociologist Robert K. Merton. And of
course the winners from the past tend to be in the right place to make things happen
in the future, and have the connections and resources to make good on those opportunities.
But there may be another reason that winners keep winning
– a reason that is particularly useful to understand business leadership: The
self-fulfilling prophecy. Some people
tend to be unrealistically optimistic, a view that sometimes makes itself come
true.
The downside of unrealistic optimism is that you are out
of touch, but the upside is that your outlook might trigger a self-fulfilling
prophecy. Steve
Jobs was said to have been surrounded by a “reality distortion field,” in that
he would believe in possibilities even when others saw them as
unthinkable. Of course, once Steve
believed, then others would too – making his vision more likely to come true.
So-called “positive illusions” of this sort
have been talked about by social psychologists for years in terms of mental
health outcomes (see the work by Shelley Taylor and her colleagues). But
when they trigger the self-fulfilling prophecy, such illusions have the potential to increase chances of success.
As Andy Rachleff argues, winning helps a leader feel confident in future
contests, thereby increasing their chances of winning.
Paul Barnett could not accept that he would fail. So in a situation where others would throw up
their hands and admit defeat, he kept scrambling. Not letting the facts get in the way, the
unrealistic optimist expends effort as if victory was within reach – which of
course makes that victory more likely.
And with every victory, the optimist’s unrealistic view gets confirmed
yet again.
The lesson for leadership is clear. Of course we know that a well-informed
decision is one that sees reality for what it is. But leadership is so much more than correct
calculation. Especially in uncertain
times, what the leader believes to be true may end up so through the self-fulfilling
prophecy.
The classic statement of the self-fulfilling prophecy is
by Robert K. Merton.































